Follow by Email

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Freedom of Speech in relationships

Many couples struggle to share how they truly feel with one another. They want to share sometimes difficult feelings or emotions in the fullest way possible, but different things hold them back. Other couples believe that one of the principles of being in a couple relationship is that they can say whatever is on their mind, however they want to say it.  The truth is there is no exact right or wrong way to have a emotion laiden conversation.

The key determining factor as to whether a difficult conversation piece will be accepted and discussed until completion is in the start up.  Many couples allow their emotions to overtake them and so when they begin to share a difficult feeling they blurt it out in a way that makes the other feel defensive. Once any part of the couple moves into defensive mode the couple enter a logger-jam and there is little space for movement, unless one part of the couple allows themselves to recognize that what is fueling the emotions is hurt and pain.

By having a slow gentle start up to a difficult conversation and acknowledging the hurt and pain by the pain holder creates space for the other part of the couple to hear the pain. Blaming or accusing has no space in a difficult conversation as each part of the couple end up walking away feeling more hurt than when they start.

Freedom of speech in a couple relationship, or by any two people, can only occur if space is created for both to share and have an opinion, and if the pain can be expressed in a gentle non-steam roller fashion.

For more  information about how to make an appointment and to learn more couple skills check out:
www.relationship-renovation.com.



4 comments:

  1. Checkout a free dating site with audio, video and Skype chat at http://www.shaadiconnections.com

    ReplyDelete
  2. Hey! I'm loving the blog! So happy I stumbled across it! So far, what I've read pertains directly to the experiences I've had. I'll definitely be checking back in.

    Thanks for the great read.

    Michael
    humansareinsane.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  3. I am Mariam used every single spell worker on the internet, spent untold amounts of money and discovered they are all fakes...i was the fool though; doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. In the end, I decided that I wanted a tarot reading to know what my future held for me; I contacted a woman who lives locally to me and she told me about a man named (Priests Abija); he does not advertise on the internet, has another job for income, has no set prices, makes no false promises and refuses to help anyone that cannot be helped and even helps for free sometimes, he will give you proof before taking money. He is a wonderful man and he was the only person who actually gave me real results. I really hope he doesn't mind me advertising his contact on the internet but I'm sure any help/ extra work will benefit him.contact him here as +447053820826 or spirituallighthealing101@live.com He travel sometimes.i cant give out his number cos he told me he don’t want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he’ will replied to any emails asap,love marriage,finance, job promotion ,lottery Voodoo,poker voodoo,golf Voodoo,Law & Court case Spells,money voodoo,weigh loss voodoo,any sicknesses voodoo,Trouble in marriage,HIV AIDS,it's all he does Hope this helps everyone that is in a desperate situation as I once was; I know how it feels to hold onto something and never have a chance to move on because of the false promises and then to feel trapped in wanting something
    more.

    ReplyDelete
  4. Just want to say your article is as astounding. The clearness for your post is just cool and that i could assume you are an expert in this subject. Fine together with your permission let me to clutch your feed to keep up to date with approaching post. See on it with other side on Psychology of Relationships

    ReplyDelete